Publisher: Beacon PressRelationships between mothers and daughters are exceptionally complex for all women. An uneasy balance between the fear of letting go and the desire for independence, the love shared between mothers and daughters can be volatile, tender, and exasperating.
Her Face in the Mirror explores this most difficult and affirming relationship in the lives of Jewish women through poems, stories, and personal essays.
"A powerful collection of writing, poetry, and essays written by Jewish women about the relationship between mothers and daughters. Includes pieces by Lila Zeiger, Vivian Gornick, Jodi Daynard, Lynne Sharon Schwartz, and Grace Paley."*
* Copyright 1995-2002 Muze Inc. For personal non-commercial use only. All rights reserved.
Wearing their loss
like makeup
or hiding it in a locket
next to a tattoo
limbs made of twigs
bodies tree-houses
they can't climb into
my daughter's friends stumble
through our home
They don't say why
they shrug off
the on-going sales pitch
and look for fun
crazy stunts
a way to stall
the death years
bearing down
like a ten-ton truck
delivering unwanted changes
Perhaps they fear losing touch
with that half-sensed heart-space
where blood swirls into a vortex
before it is veined
madly out again
where a new thought
sense-free can arise
or an image not found on TV
not found in the violence
Hollywood cradles them in
Like walking willows
they droop through my kitchen
saying who they are
Hi, mom, they say
and unfurl into
my daughter's room
skirting the piles of t-shirts
wild mushrooms
blooming on the floor
safe for a bit
in an electronic forest
of hard music
some with shaved heads
some with hair like a
madonna-blue annunciation
and each, each, each
with wounded eyes.
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